Tuesday, August 30, 2005
Niceness
If you would be so kind as to contribute your thought and opinion, rare dear reader, what do you think is of greater relative importance or lack thereof: being pleasant and nice to people with whom you are talking or working or conveying knowledge and stating your opinions clearly? Would your choice change if you knew that asserting your ideas or opinions would probably upset others? Would your choice change if withholding your knowledge or opinions would make you feel frustrated and uncomfortable? Do you think an "underdog" always trumps an "overdog" in the sense that hurt feelings should be avoided at all costs? Do you think there is ever a time when it's all right to risk hurting other people's feelings or do you think that is the ultimate trump card?

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Monday, August 29, 2005
War is hell, 2
As much as anyone, I hate war. It is an enthralling subject for study and does stimulate terrific literature and art and provide a fertile context for fascinating discussions about profound topics. But it is truly horrible and should be avoided if at all possible. All that being said, the current situation in Iraq differs from the Vietnam situation in important ways. For one thing, the provocation for our involvement in southeast Asia wasn't the torture and killing of hundreds of thousands of citizens and elections were never held, nor a constitution formed, as a direct result of our intervention. It was a civil war in which we almost certainly had no business. To morph distaste for all war into equating Vietnam and Iraq is simply bad reasoning. Oppose this war, if you want, but for itself.

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War is hell, 1
Here's some bad reasoning on my part. I feel that if Al Sharpton supports something, I should run - not walk - to the opposite point of view. The vigor with which he championed Tawana Brawley's venemous tantrum a few years ago, and the resulting destruction of one person's life and two others' careers, and his continuing refusal to apologize even in the mildest terms, makes him seem very nearly evil. His current support of Cindy Sheehan utterly taints anything meritorious she or her other supporters might have to say.

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Thursday, August 25, 2005
Junk? trash? literature?
Update: I'm told there's a study that shows that reading a lot is a good predictor of success in college. Better than SAT scores or even high school grades. The kicker is that the quality of the reading doesn't matter, only the quantity! The act of reading, the stoking of the imagination . . . that's what's important. Cheers.

When I was little, my father forbade me to read the Nancy Drew books because, he said, they were junk. I obeyed him for a while but eventually did the under-the-blanket-with-a-flashlight thing and loved Nancy all the more because I had to suffer for her. As the daughter of a professor/writer father and a editor/writer mother, I read a lot of the classics and enjoyed most of them thoroughly especially Jane Austen (what's not to like?), Shakespeare, the Dumas brothers, the Brontes (all), Costain, etc. After being stopped in my tracks by my father's disgust with Nancy and Ned, however, I refused to read for pleasure. (That sure showed him since I was the one who lost out of years of delight.) Except for school work I didn't read again for over ten years. One day, in an airport bookstore and knowing it bothered me that I felt unable to read for fun, my husband suggested I try something that looked appealing. I saw a bright-covered copy of Peyton Place and haven't looked back. I enjoyed PP a lot, so much so that I became one of the probably few people to read all five Grace Metalious novels. And enjoyed them so much that I returned to reading with gusto. By the way, what's the real difference between her and John Updike, other than the literati seal of approval? Anyway, I continue to read as many as one or two books a week, many officially well written but many in a nether category if my father were doing the labeling. So here's the thing: does it matter what kind of writing one reads as long as one reads and therefore stokes one's interior imagination? will I be sent to a mid-level circle of hell for sometimes eschewing literary finesse in favor of easier and cheerier reads?

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Wednesday, August 24, 2005
Some miscellany
One. There's a play on in London called "Who's the Daddy?" which is a "documentary farce" (felicitous phrase turned by one of the playwrights) about recent shenanigans at The Spectator magazine. A terrific way to babble about something in bad taste but too much fun to resist.

Two. Why get all excited over anything Pat Robertson says? He has no actual influence, does he? Nevertheless, it certainly was pretty stupid. Sometimes bad attention is actually bad.

Three. Don't tapirs seem too big to be kept secret? NY's Gov Pataki says he has a secret one and he's furious. Oh, ok, I know he's talking about someone who made secret audio tapes of an advisor, the Mrs and him. But it's silly. If they'd been calm and circumspect instead of angry and crude, none of it would matter.

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Monday, August 22, 2005
Mother questions
Some questions to which I truly would like answers (read all - don't assume you know where I'm going).
— Does the context of a child's death change (minimize or enlarge) its tragedy for his or her parents?
— After his first tour of duty, Casey Sheehan chose to re-enlist. It is logical to assume he knew that he might be killed by returning to fight in Iraq.
— Natalee Holloway chose to take a senior class trip to Aruba to party hearty. Is it logical to assume that taking a silly trip will result in being kidnapped or killed?
— Does the seriousness of Casey Sheehan's choice elevate his death above Natalee Holloway's?
— Does the frivolity of Natalee Holloway's choice diminish her death and make it less horrifying?
— Does either mother deserve our respect and attention more or less than the other?
— Does the sober context of Sheehan's death validate his mother's thoughts and words and make her more profound or meritorious?
— Does the party context of Holloway's death invalidate her mother's thoughts and words and make her less reflective or meritorious?
— Many people listen to Mrs Sheehan's comments as if they are pearls of wisdom even when she contradicts her own written statements; why?
— Many have praised Bob Costas for refusing to anchor a show that would spend time talking with Mrs Twitty about her daughter's disappearance in Aruba; why?
— Do Cindy Sheehan and Beth Twitty both deserve our respect and sympathy?
— Should we react differently to either death?
— Is either mother's loss greater, or more tragic, than the other's?
— Does a mother's sorrow and grief automatically endow her with wisdom of thought and speech?
Update. Related post and comments at The Fly Bottle.

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War & peace
St. Augustine: "The purpose of all wars is peace." Although possibly true, is it because opposites need each other or is it pure and simple irony?

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Sunday, August 21, 2005
DC bookstores
For years I've tried to figure out why the Washington DC area is blessed with so many wonderful bookstores (over eighty). Surely it isn't the politicians! I suppose it's partly the universities and colleges but NY has them too. The B&Ns in DC are all better than others I've been to which probably means something (mistaken) about customer demographics. Anyway, the 2005 Washington Post readers choices for best bookstores are:
1. Barnes & Noble
2. Kramerbooks
3. Borders
4. Politics & Prose
5. Olsson's
6. Second Story
7. Lambda Rising
8. Chapters
9. Books-A-Million
10. Trover Shop
I wish specific stores were named if they're in chains, such as the Georgetown B&N with its whole wall of books in foreign languages and the 4-floor Tyson's Borders with newspapers from everywhere and a floorful of music. And the Olsson's that's well-stocked and welcoming whereas others have less stock and slightly snotty clerks. Of course Kramerbooks and P&P feel self important and off-putting to me so what do I know. I'm sorry the mystery bookstore in Bethesda didn't make the list but I suppose everyone has a favorite omission.

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Saturday, August 20, 2005
Spellcheck is not foolproof
This little ditty was sent to me years ago. The words are spelled fine - they're just the wrong words. Isn't it good to know we still need brains.
Know More Miss Steaks (a/k/a Miss Spelling - thanks RIDM)
Eye half ah spelling chequer -
hit Cayman with my pee see.
It planely marques four my revue
mistakes eye cane knot sea.
I've run this poem threw it end
I'm sheer your please two no
its lett her perfect inn its weigh
my Czech - her tolled me sew!

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Friday, August 19, 2005
Jazz + marrow + blogs, or: We need to help
It seems that renowned jazz saxaphonist Michael Brecker is seriously ill with MDS (myelodysplastic syndrome) and he must have a marrow or blood stem cell transplant (which apparently has nothing to do with embryonic stem cells) soon. Read yesterday's New York Times article and Matzoh Cajones plea. There's an informative FAQ page and you can contribute money online to The Marrow Foundation, 100% of which is used for testing potential donors, or contact them about being a donor.

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Thursday, August 18, 2005
Patience
. . . is a virtue of which any readers I am lucky enough to have need much (in addition to patience with odd grammatical constructs which I occasionally enjoy). I can't stop myself from designing and redesigning and redesigning again, with no particular reason except that I feel like it. I used to rearrange my furniture fairly regularly but bruised shins were annoying and my lovely new (to me) house seems equilibrious at present. Thanks for your forbearance, Patient Reader, and feel free to let me know (pleasantly, of course) colors or color combinations or layouts you like or dislike.

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Wednesday, August 17, 2005
August 16, 1977
Elvis Presley died 28 years ago. I can't believe it's been so long! Isn't it astonishing that some people say he "died" in quotes (because . . . well, you know)? Well, the whole Elvis thing is astonishing itself, of course! Ten thousand people had visited his grave before 10:00 a.m. according to KTHV. There's music here, info here and a list of songs here so put on your blue suede shoes, call your little sister, get yourself all shook up and surrender!

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Tuesday, August 16, 2005
HongNian Zhang
Stunning paintings here by a contemporary American oil painter and lithographer. Thanks for the site to the Fletcher Gallery and for the tip to Reflections in D Minor.

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Good questions
Some good questions here, particularly:
How come there is not a huge voluntary effort to help and to publicize the efforts to find the hundreds of thousands of "missing" Iraqis, to support Iraqi women's battle against fundamentalists, to assist in the recuperation of the marsh Arab wetlands, and to underwrite the struggle of the Kurds, the largest stateless people in the Middle East?
and
Why have several large American cities not already announced that they are going to become sister cities with Baghdad and help raise money and awareness?
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Isn't there a single drop of solidarity and compassion left over for the people of Iraq, after three decades of tyranny, war, and sanctions and now an assault from the vilest movement on the face of the planet?
Their zeal to excoriate Bush has apparently blinded international and U.S. human rights and feminist organizations, ecological foundations, and committees for minority rights to Iraq's very real need for their help. Or they're hypocrites.

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Monday, August 15, 2005
Many meanings of faith
Every now and then an idea floats out there that seems fundamental to many aspects of life. That "aha!" thing happens and you go wild, saying seeing how it applies here and here and there. Random Jottings raised just such an idea yesterday:
"All these problems are really the same problem. Europe has lost its faith. Its Christian faith, its Jewish faith, its faith in its own civilization, and in the future. Immigrants don't assimilate because there's now nothing to assimilate to. The economy is stagnant because the missing entrepreneurial spirit is a kind of faith, a faith that is willing to sacrifice present comforts to build dream-like futures. Its democracies are sclerotic because real leadership is a form of faith, a willingness to take perilous paths of change or reform without knowing exactly how things will turn out. Europe's multiculturalism is a fig leaf to hide the lack of belief in anything. Its pacifism is a lie to cover the unwillingness to fight for anything."

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Saturday, August 13, 2005
Entrelac
Front and back of an entrelac pillow I did with the same llama wool and mohair it's sitting on. The llama is soft and luxurious and plays off the mohair nicely. The "strips" are usual entrelac; the "triangles" are also interlinked, not sewn together. An interesting, fun, satisfying project.

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Friday, August 12, 2005
ICE
A British ambulance service has a plan that should become as universal and helpful as 911. It's called ICE ("In Case of Emergency) and the idea is that you store the word "ice" in your cell phone's address book and enter the number(s) of the person you want contacted in an emergency. Ambulance, hospital or other emergency personnel can easily and quickly find out who to contact. It's so simple and really could save your life. For more than one contact, use ICE1, ICE2, ICE3.

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Wednesday, August 10, 2005
Farewell, BBG
My favorite of her roles is the Alfred Hitchock Presents housewife who kills her husband with a frozen leg of lamb, buries him in the backyard, then cooks and serves lamb to the investigating officers. Close second is Midge, charmingly trying to help Jimmy Stewart steer clear of vertigo-inducing Kim Novak. It's hard to believe that the Catholic Church's Legion of Decency excoriated her for starring in The Moon Is Blue which spoke the word (cover your ears) virginity. It's too bad she made only a few films. But she starred with some yummy men (Stewart, Mitchum, James Mason, Henry Fonda, Widmark, Olivier). And, of course, there was Dallas. I wish I'd seen Deep Are the Roots, Cat on a Hot Tin Roof and The Prince and the Showgirl. I wish some families appreciated each other better. I'm glad she got to spend so many years in Maine. Rest in peace, Miss Ellie, you deeply-rooted, Mama-remembering, children's-book-writing Cat.

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Missing in Aruba
Isn't it awfully weird that there hasn't been a single trace of Natalle Holloway? Not a sandal, a ribbon, a barrette, a piece of ripped fabric, not one teeny thing to prove she was in Aruba, let alone to show what happened to her. How could two or three goofy or stoned teenagers commit a murder - whether accidentally or on purpose - and succeed in cleaning or gathering every minute piece of evidence? Even if she fell and hit her head, which always seemed the most logical explanation, and they put her out to sea. Even if the judge-in-training father assisted. It seems so unlikely that nothing at all could be left behind. Does that mean she was sold off to white slave traders, which sounds like a bad movie? Does it mean she's still held captive somewhere? Do the Arubans desperately want to keep the slave trade out of the news? What's going on??

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Tuesday, August 9, 2005
Whew
The shuttle returned with all the astronauts, safely. Everyone at NASA on both coasts must be levitating on the air from their (and our) collective sighs of relief. Welcome home!

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Friday, August 5, 2005
Punishment fit the crime
Neil Cavuto ranted yesterday about Martha Stewart being made to wear her ankle bracelet longer:
I feel safer now: Martha Stewart has to keep her ankle bracelet on another few weeks. That’ll show her! I guess we’re all better off knowing that bracelet isn’t coming off so soon. But not a word about all those sex offenders out there whose whereabouts none of us knows. Where are their ankle bracelets? Where’s the fuss over their comings and goings? No, Martha takes a four-wheeler out of her house and authorities clamp down to make sure she stays “in” her house.
Is there just so much punishment to go around? Does meting out some to Martha mean too little left for people who harm children? With that logic, since Stalin tortured and annihilated millions of people we should just slap robbers. Martha doesn't remotely compare to a child molester but she was found guilty and has thumbed her nose at her conviction (yoga classes, driving around and showing how she takes the bracelet off). Maybe she shouldn't have been convicted in the first place but she knew what she was doing about the bracelet and it was wrong.

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Thursday, August 4, 2005
Websites?
Which website(s) do you go to for the following?
•mental stimulation / provocation (not necessarily political)
•unbiased news (or as close as is possible)
•new / original ideas (on any subject)
•interesting writing
•sharp and clever wit

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Tuesday, August 2, 2005
Seeking creative helpful knitters and crocheters
All you creative knitters and crocheters out there, I hope you can help me! I really want to knit or crochet a baby blanket pattern that meets four criteria: it must be lovely, interesting, reversible (i.e., okay on the wrong side) and fairly quick to make. Many crochet patterns are pretty, quick and reversible, but have that rigid-stitch crochet look. Some knit patterns are reversible, quick and pretty, but are a bit boring. Mitred squares are fun and great looking, but the reverse is too "ws". Please send your wonderful suggestions and - hey - I'll give you a photo credit if I make your pattern!

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Monday, August 1, 2005
Another awesome store
Check out pokkadots. They have bags, gifts and clothes - all well and colorfully designed. Diaper bags (at least one of which converts to non-diaper), baby gifts, cool baby and toddler clothing, plus gifts and stuff for the new, expecting and mid-motherhood Mom. Great stuff.

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